Tuesday, July 23, 2002
Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?
"Nice Guys" are too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure? The biggest problem is that most Nice Guys (tm) are hideously insecure. They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention, rather than for the simply pleasure of giving. You never know if a Nice Guy really likes you for who you are, or if he has glommed onto you out of desperation because you actually payed some kind of attention to him. [Via-Heartless-Bitches.com]
Bitter, party of one?
I realize this is only one person's opinion of nice guys. And being able to freely express that opinion is what I love most about the independant web. But here's my opinion----You don't lump people into one category for convenience sake, for starters. [Assholes VS Nice Guys, etc.] And just because a guy is being civil, and kind and giving, do I think he's insecure and desperate? HARDLY.
A real woman will appreciate a "nice guy". My advice to so-called Nice Guys: I like you just the way you are, and if you happen upon someone who rants about 'the problem with nice guys'.......R u n L i k e H e l l !
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